Question and Answer On Previous Dating Contacts


To: Anna
From: Louis

I am asking you this question for each of your contacts from previous dating in your life. I have deleted all of my contacts of this type. I tell them, block their contacts and remove their chat.

Here is question for you. Think of this question for each of your many contacts.

Revised Question: “In a committed love relationship, is it acceptable for a person to have contacts in their phone from previous online and potentially physical dating, with pending chat conversations?”

What do you wish to do with contact ___________________ [Name of Contact]?

And here are the answers:

  1. Continue to engage in chat conversations with these contacts, regardless of the impact on the current love relationship.

    • This answer suggests a disregard for the current relationship and can potentially lead to emotional strain and conflict.
  2. Delete the contacts but keep the chat conversations, hoping for future communication.

    • This answer demonstrates a willingness to disconnect from the contacts, yet leaves open the possibility of future interactions, which can create uncertainty and emotional tension in the current relationship.
  3. Delete the contacts, picture of the contact, block them, and delete the chat conversations, while establishing boundaries for handling similar situations in the future.

    • This answer showcases a proactive approach to addressing the issue, prioritizing the current love relationship, and setting clear boundaries for future interactions.